10.30.2025
Personality Privacy
There's something that needs to be said about straying from the pressure of having a grande social circle. About neglecting the need to prove to the masses that we are who we are.
As children of the modern age, we are wired to compare our relationships to others. There is a mutual feeling that if we are not seen by or connected to the majorities, we are less than.
Which isn't necessarily false because numerically, we are less than. And in the scenario that we are the literal minority by number, we often feel overpowered, and harshly misunderstood.
There is a longing that the majority would have more appreciation for us if only they understood who we really are. We assume that if we can befriend all of our options, we will be mutually loved and therefore finally be able to love ourselves.
But in reality, the masses cant possibly understand who we really are. Because they can only comprehend as much as they are.
We should stray from the credence that who we are needs some sort of justification by the people who we don't even resonate with. Because in all seriousness, those people don't deserve access to us anyway. And if we continue to give the majorities's definition of us thought, then that is exactly who we will become.
The masses are bringing us down, utterly threatened by the radical success we are being pulled towards, by the depth of conversation in which we understand and by the sense of self we hold without their validation.
This leads me to privacy.
The less people know about you, the less they have to ruin through their vulgar judgement. Keep your personality private from those who you do not energetically align with.
We don't owe the herds an explanation for why we are who we are. They wouldn't understand anyway.
Our only job is to be ourselves. That can't truly happen until we stop caring about what the bulk (or anyone for that matter) is perceiving us as.
I'm trying to put this into practice, let me know if you align.
Lucy Hart Hannah
